Chapter 3
Isha does not want to meet Aditi
When Pradeep and his parents go home, Aditi talks to Aunty. ‘I do not want to marry Pradeep,’ she says. ‘Are you sure Aditi?’ Aunty says. ‘They are a good family and his father has a lot of money.’ ‘Aunty! I cannot marry him because he is rich.’ Aditi is shocked. ‘You can still love your husband if he is rich Aditi.’ ‘No, Aunty. I’m not going to marry someone for money. I want to love my husband. I don’t care if he is rich or poor.’ Aunty sighs, ‘I understand.You are very young.’ Every week-end of the summer holiday Aunty asks different young men and their parents to come to the house to meet Aditi. Every time Aditi says she does not want to see them again. Soon it is time to go to University. Next week Aditi is going to London to stay with her father’s brother and his wife. Aditi is going to live with them when she studies at London University. One evening Aunty says, ‘I want you to help me clean the house Aditi. On Saturday Isha and his parents are coming to meet you.’ Aditi is cross. ‘Oh no! Aunty. I want to go out on Saturday to buy things for University and I have dance practice.’ ‘Isha is very nice. You can go to town on Friday to shop,’ Aunty Yasmin says firmly. ‘You can miss dance practice’. ‘No Aunty. I do not want to meet Isha. I’m going to shop on Saturday.’ ‘Ravi!’ Aunty Yasmin says. ‘Tell Aditi she must meet Isha on Saturday.’ ‘No, father. It’s too late. I’m going to University on Monday.’ Ravi looks unhappy. He hates Aunty and Aditi to quarrel. ‘Aunty, you must tell Isha’s parents that Aditi is going out on Saturday. Perhaps they can come next summer?’ He turns to Aditi and he tells her, ‘I know Isha’s parents. They are from Uganda.Your mother and I were in school with his parents. They are very nice. Aunty is not happy but she phones Isha’s parents. When she comes back she feels better. ‘It’s alright. Isha’s parents are very friendly. Isha does not want to come.’ ‘Perhaps they can come next summer,’ Ravi says. ‘No! Isha’s mother says they may come to see you Ravi but Isha wants to choose his own wife. He does not want to meet Aditi. He does not want his parents to arrange a marriage. Isha thinks girls in our community only care about money and good looks.’ Aditi is annoyed. Isha does not know her. She does not want to marry someone for money. She wants to choose but she is polite to men who come to the house. Aunty sees on her face that Aditi was cross. ‘Don’t worry about him Aditi,’ Aunty says.‘My friends at the Temple can tell me about other men who want to meet you. You can meet them when you come home next summer. I am sure they are nicer than Isha.’ Aunty sniffs. Aditi sighs. She wants Aunty to stop looking for young men to meet her. Her father winks at her. ‘It’s a long time to next summer,’ he whispers to Aditi. ‘Don’t think about it. You are going to London University on Monday.’ Chapter 4
Aditi goes to University
Aunty Sara and Uncle Narvin are very kind to Aditi. They lie in South London. Aditi has a big bedroom. It is comfortable. Aditi is a student at Imperial College, London University. She is studying science. There are a lot of men in her class and only a few women. Everyone is very friendly. On the first morning a girl from Birmingham talks to Aditi and they have lunch together. Aditi likes Molly a lot and soon the girls are good friends. Aditi is happy in College. She works very hard. She is clever. The teachers think she is a very good scientist. She does not go out with boys like other girls in her class. She is good friends with Tony and she talks about science with him. When the Easter holiday comes he visits Leicester and he goes to Aditi’s home. Her father likes Tony but Aunty does not. She is afraid Aditi likes Tony too much. The year passes quickly. Now it is the summer term. In ten weeks Aditi and Molly finish their first year in University. Today the girls are queuing for lunch. Tony comes in with his friend. His friend is an older student and he has a degree already. He is studying for a PhD now. Tony likes Aditi very much. He stands next to her and he starts talking. Aditi does not know the name of Tony’s friend. She can see he is from her community because he is wearing the beads round his wrist. Aditi thinks Tony’s friend has a very nice smile. He is good looking too. Tony says. ‘Is your father going to find you a husband Aditi?’ She laughs. ‘Everyone wants to know about my father choosing my husband,’ she says. ‘At the moment my father wants me to study and pass my exams. I want to choose my own husband but I might marry someone my father wants me to meet. ‘Tony’s friend speaks. He smiles at Aditi. ‘Yes, British people always ask me about ‘arranged marriages’. I told Tony we do not all have arranged marriages some of the modern men and women choose partners themselves.’ Aditi agrees with Tony’s friend. He is very good-looking. Tony says, ‘Sometimes when I want a girlfriend I think you are lucky if your parents find you a girl. But I’m not sure. Sometimes, I think it is better if I choose my own girlfriend. Tony’s friend likes Aditi. She looks very pretty today. She is wearing beads around her neck and he knows she is from his community. He says, ‘I think it is awful for young men to go with parents to see if a woman wants to marry him. The young women in our community only want someone handsome or rich,’ he says. ‘Who are you?’ Aditi asks. She does not like this handsome man now. She remembers those words. Aditi has a shock when Molly says. ‘This is Isha, Aditi. He is studying for a PhD. His parents live in London but they came from Uganda many years ago, like your people.’ Molly turns to Isha. She says, ‘You don’t have to worry Isha.You don’t need your parents to find a wife because lots of women like you.You are very handsome.’ Isha laughs. ‘Thank-you Molly.’ Aditi feels awful. The handsome stranger is Isha. She remembers Isha. He is the young man who did not want to meet her. Her father says his parents are nice but Aditi does not like Isha. He is rude about women from her community. Aditi buys lunch. She carries it to the table in the cafeteria and Molly follows her. ‘Isn’t Isha gorgeous?’ Molly asks. ‘He’s ok!’ ‘He’s really handsome - look at his thick black hair and he has beautiful eyes.’ Aditi looks back. Isha is staring at her. ‘I don’t think he’s handsome,’ she says to Molly. ‘Well, he’s very clever,’ Molly says. The young men come to the table. ‘Can we join you?’Tony asks. ‘Sure,’ Molly pats the chair. ‘Come and sit next to me Isha.’ Isha looks a lot at Aditi. While Tony talks to Molly, Isha speaks to Aditi. ‘Do you live in Leicester, Aditi?’ he asks. Aditi thinks, ‘He knows who I am.’ ‘Yes.’ ‘Is your father Ravi? Did he come from Uganda?’ ‘Yes.’ ‘My mother asked me to go to your house I think?’ ‘Yes and I don’t want to marry a man because he is handsome. And I don’t want to marry a man for money. I want my husband to be interesting and kind.’ She stands up. ‘I must go now,’ she says. ‘Tony and Isha want us to go for a walk,’ Molly says to Aditi before she leaves the table. ‘Let’s go for a walk.’ ‘I’m sorry. I have work to do Molly, I must go,’ Aditi says. She smiles at Molly but she does not look at Isha and she hurries away.
Isha does not want to meet Aditi
When Pradeep and his parents go home, Aditi talks to Aunty. ‘I do not want to marry Pradeep,’ she says. ‘Are you sure Aditi?’ Aunty says. ‘They are a good family and his father has a lot of money.’ ‘Aunty! I cannot marry him because he is rich.’ Aditi is shocked. ‘You can still love your husband if he is rich Aditi.’ ‘No, Aunty. I’m not going to marry someone for money. I want to love my husband. I don’t care if he is rich or poor.’ Aunty sighs, ‘I understand.You are very young.’ Every week-end of the summer holiday Aunty asks different young men and their parents to come to the house to meet Aditi. Every time Aditi says she does not want to see them again. Soon it is time to go to University. Next week Aditi is going to London to stay with her father’s brother and his wife. Aditi is going to live with them when she studies at London University. One evening Aunty says, ‘I want you to help me clean the house Aditi. On Saturday Isha and his parents are coming to meet you.’ Aditi is cross. ‘Oh no! Aunty. I want to go out on Saturday to buy things for University and I have dance practice.’ ‘Isha is very nice. You can go to town on Friday to shop,’ Aunty Yasmin says firmly. ‘You can miss dance practice’. ‘No Aunty. I do not want to meet Isha. I’m going to shop on Saturday.’ ‘Ravi!’ Aunty Yasmin says. ‘Tell Aditi she must meet Isha on Saturday.’ ‘No, father. It’s too late. I’m going to University on Monday.’ Ravi looks unhappy. He hates Aunty and Aditi to quarrel. ‘Aunty, you must tell Isha’s parents that Aditi is going out on Saturday. Perhaps they can come next summer?’ He turns to Aditi and he tells her, ‘I know Isha’s parents. They are from Uganda.Your mother and I were in school with his parents. They are very nice. Aunty is not happy but she phones Isha’s parents. When she comes back she feels better. ‘It’s alright. Isha’s parents are very friendly. Isha does not want to come.’ ‘Perhaps they can come next summer,’ Ravi says. ‘No! Isha’s mother says they may come to see you Ravi but Isha wants to choose his own wife. He does not want to meet Aditi. He does not want his parents to arrange a marriage. Isha thinks girls in our community only care about money and good looks.’ Aditi is annoyed. Isha does not know her. She does not want to marry someone for money. She wants to choose but she is polite to men who come to the house. Aunty sees on her face that Aditi was cross. ‘Don’t worry about him Aditi,’ Aunty says.‘My friends at the Temple can tell me about other men who want to meet you. You can meet them when you come home next summer. I am sure they are nicer than Isha.’ Aunty sniffs. Aditi sighs. She wants Aunty to stop looking for young men to meet her. Her father winks at her. ‘It’s a long time to next summer,’ he whispers to Aditi. ‘Don’t think about it. You are going to London University on Monday.’ Chapter 4
Aditi goes to University
Aunty Sara and Uncle Narvin are very kind to Aditi. They lie in South London. Aditi has a big bedroom. It is comfortable. Aditi is a student at Imperial College, London University. She is studying science. There are a lot of men in her class and only a few women. Everyone is very friendly. On the first morning a girl from Birmingham talks to Aditi and they have lunch together. Aditi likes Molly a lot and soon the girls are good friends. Aditi is happy in College. She works very hard. She is clever. The teachers think she is a very good scientist. She does not go out with boys like other girls in her class. She is good friends with Tony and she talks about science with him. When the Easter holiday comes he visits Leicester and he goes to Aditi’s home. Her father likes Tony but Aunty does not. She is afraid Aditi likes Tony too much. The year passes quickly. Now it is the summer term. In ten weeks Aditi and Molly finish their first year in University. Today the girls are queuing for lunch. Tony comes in with his friend. His friend is an older student and he has a degree already. He is studying for a PhD now. Tony likes Aditi very much. He stands next to her and he starts talking. Aditi does not know the name of Tony’s friend. She can see he is from her community because he is wearing the beads round his wrist. Aditi thinks Tony’s friend has a very nice smile. He is good looking too. Tony says. ‘Is your father going to find you a husband Aditi?’ She laughs. ‘Everyone wants to know about my father choosing my husband,’ she says. ‘At the moment my father wants me to study and pass my exams. I want to choose my own husband but I might marry someone my father wants me to meet. ‘Tony’s friend speaks. He smiles at Aditi. ‘Yes, British people always ask me about ‘arranged marriages’. I told Tony we do not all have arranged marriages some of the modern men and women choose partners themselves.’ Aditi agrees with Tony’s friend. He is very good-looking. Tony says, ‘Sometimes when I want a girlfriend I think you are lucky if your parents find you a girl. But I’m not sure. Sometimes, I think it is better if I choose my own girlfriend. Tony’s friend likes Aditi. She looks very pretty today. She is wearing beads around her neck and he knows she is from his community. He says, ‘I think it is awful for young men to go with parents to see if a woman wants to marry him. The young women in our community only want someone handsome or rich,’ he says. ‘Who are you?’ Aditi asks. She does not like this handsome man now. She remembers those words. Aditi has a shock when Molly says. ‘This is Isha, Aditi. He is studying for a PhD. His parents live in London but they came from Uganda many years ago, like your people.’ Molly turns to Isha. She says, ‘You don’t have to worry Isha.You don’t need your parents to find a wife because lots of women like you.You are very handsome.’ Isha laughs. ‘Thank-you Molly.’ Aditi feels awful. The handsome stranger is Isha. She remembers Isha. He is the young man who did not want to meet her. Her father says his parents are nice but Aditi does not like Isha. He is rude about women from her community. Aditi buys lunch. She carries it to the table in the cafeteria and Molly follows her. ‘Isn’t Isha gorgeous?’ Molly asks. ‘He’s ok!’ ‘He’s really handsome - look at his thick black hair and he has beautiful eyes.’ Aditi looks back. Isha is staring at her. ‘I don’t think he’s handsome,’ she says to Molly. ‘Well, he’s very clever,’ Molly says. The young men come to the table. ‘Can we join you?’Tony asks. ‘Sure,’ Molly pats the chair. ‘Come and sit next to me Isha.’ Isha looks a lot at Aditi. While Tony talks to Molly, Isha speaks to Aditi. ‘Do you live in Leicester, Aditi?’ he asks. Aditi thinks, ‘He knows who I am.’ ‘Yes.’ ‘Is your father Ravi? Did he come from Uganda?’ ‘Yes.’ ‘My mother asked me to go to your house I think?’ ‘Yes and I don’t want to marry a man because he is handsome. And I don’t want to marry a man for money. I want my husband to be interesting and kind.’ She stands up. ‘I must go now,’ she says. ‘Tony and Isha want us to go for a walk,’ Molly says to Aditi before she leaves the table. ‘Let’s go for a walk.’ ‘I’m sorry. I have work to do Molly, I must go,’ Aditi says. She smiles at Molly but she does not look at Isha and she hurries away.